Finding out you’re pregnant can change your plans overnight. While you’re still processing the news yourself, you may also be wondering how or when to tell your family, especially if you’re thinking about abortion.
Those conversations can feel intimidating, but taking time to prepare can help you communicate more clearly and confidently. Pregnancy Resources Plus offers free, confidential appointments where you can ask questions, learn about your pregnancy options, and receive support before having difficult conversations.
Contact us today to get started.
Give Yourself Some Time
You don’t have to tell everyone immediately after seeing a positive pregnancy test.
Before involving family members, spend some time learning about your pregnancy and understanding your options. Knowing where you stand can make it easier to answer questions and explain your thoughts if you’re ready to share them.
Think About What You Want to Say
Before the conversation, consider what information you feel comfortable sharing.
You may decide to tell your family details like how far along you are (if you know), which options you are currently leaning toward, and what kind of support you’re hoping to receive.
You don’t need every answer before talking with them, but thinking through these points ahead of time can help you feel more prepared.
Offer Time to Process the News
Even people who love you may react with surprise, concern, disappointment, excitement, or confusion.
Just as you’ve needed time to process this pregnancy, your family may need time to think about what you’ve just told them and how they are feeling.
Revisiting the conversation when everyone has had time to process the news can prevent additional anxiety. It also provides an opportunity for you to consider what role you’d like your loved ones to play moving forward.
We’re Here Before and After the Conversation
Sometimes it helps to talk with someone outside your family first.
Pregnancy Resources Plus provides free pregnancy confirmation services and a confidential place to discuss your situation. Whether you have questions about your options or just need a listening ear, we’re here for you.
Schedule your free appointment today.
Pregnancy Resources Plus does not provide or refer for abortions.
